The toxicity you have experienced is not your destiny. Whether you are in a toxic environment now, recovering from toxic relationships or trying not to repeat past situations, we have resources for you.
Are you starting a new relationship?
Does the beginning of your relationship feel too good to be true? Afraid of repeating toxic relationships? Learn how to recognize the signs of a toxic relationship before you get involved.
Are you in a relationship where you feel controlled?
If you are in a controlling, manipulative, abusive, or narcissistic relationship we are here to encourage and support you. Find resources on how to hold your course.
Are you in a toxic community?
Work, church, community--these are central to our lives and relationships. When they go off track, however, it can be painful and confusing. These resources are designed to bring clarity through practical and biblical insights.
Are you recovering from a toxic relationship?
Toxic relationships can leave you reeling, feeling lost in life, and struggling to get back to your true self. My resources are designed to walk you through this process, practically and biblically.
Shaneen Megji
Certified Life Coach
Most people know me through my Youtube channel, “Toxicity is Not Your Destiny,” where I tackle the difficult topic of narcissism from a Biblical, practical, and spiritual perspective.
It seems my whole life has prepared me to do the work I am so passionate about today. Let’s just say I had to swim in narcissistic waters for many years, in workplace scenarios, in my previous faith as a Muslim, in friendships, and even in the church.
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7 Red Flags to Spot a Narcissist
This eBook is one of Shaneen Megji's most popular publications available as a free download. Inside of this eBook, you will learn:
- How to tell the difference between a person with their human faults and a narcissist.
- How to put your finger on the warning signs of a too-good-to-be-true relationship.
- How to spot toxic patterns in any relationship: romantic, professional, romantic, or platonic.
Recover Your Identity After Narcissistic Relationships
Apply for my 12-week, group coaching program and journey
with me and about 12 others to:
- Find healing, freedom, and confidence;
- Set healthy boundaries while keeping your peace;
- Recover your God-given identity;
- Align with God’s vision and move forward with your life;
- Connect with other women who understand the isolation, pain, confusion, manipulation, gaslighting;
- And much, much more...
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Carol
Canada | Ministry Leader
Before I started coaching with Shaneen, I couldn’t tell the truth from the lies. I desperately wanted to believe that the toxic patterns and lifestyle I was in were not my forever story, but I felt lost, hopeless, discouraged, and crazy. When I “stumbled” over Shaneen’s videos on you-tube, I felt seen & heard by God. Finally, there was someone out there that was offering a God-perspective of hope to my newly discovered Narcissistic situation! And Shaneen backed up her teaching with Scripture which was unbelievably refreshing to me.
When I started my 12 weeks of coaching with Shaneen, I felt a new freedom in my life - like I didn’t have to try to explain myself to someone who didn’t understand. I felt understood by someone who was skilled with Narcissistic patterns. I finally felt like I wasn’t crazy. It was a safe place to lay everything out that I had been holding in for decades ...a safe place to cry, laugh, and be real without being judged. A place of hope.
Every week I felt like I had someone cheering me on as I practiced new habits of relating. I felt like I could hang in there one more day until I could talk to Shaneen, instead of exploding at my husband or just abandoning my desires and caving in one more time. And her coaching time was very affordable. I felt like when Shaneen said yes to helping me navigate my toxic situation and that was the first step to freedom and a new season of life. I finally acknowledged that my situation was real and I needed help with it.
Shaneen became a friend over those 12 weeks, and her advice and counsel, and compassionate voice that is filled with wisdom continues to echo in the walls of my head and my heart as I continue to practice the new lifestyle and truths that she helped me discover and embrace. And the gift of having access to her video blogs is priceless. She has such a download of wisdom that I know comes straight from the heart of God ... it is refreshing and solid and life-transforming.
Christine
New York | CEO & Founder of a NonProfit Organization and Social Worker
Shaneen is an incredibly powerful woman. She has offered wisdom and guidance that has fully exceeded my expectations. Not only does Shaneen help me manage my relationship with a narcissistic person but she empowers me with applicable tools to navigate the challenges of life.
Shaneen is a spiritual Jedi. She is guided by the light of Christ and embodies a deep level of compassion, courage, and forgiveness.
Shaneen has taught me how to lower my anxiety when dealing with a highly unpredictable person and to navigate the relationship with grace, courage, and forgiveness. This has allowed me to lower my anxiety overall, increased my sense of peace, and given me more courage and confidence.
Shaneen is truly the best mentor, teacher, and counselor I have ever had. I can't recommend her enough.
She is simply a gift to anyone who is seeking to cultivate more courage, deeper spiritual growth, and increase their ability to navigate life's challenges.
James
North Carolina | Software Engineer and Marine Veteran
Working with Shaneen has been a game-changer. Over a year ago, I was dealing with some very difficult and abusive personalities. I knew something was off, and I needed help navigating various situations. I came across Shaneen's YouTube channel and knew almost immediately that she could help me navigate the very trying people and circumstances. In fact, as we started working together, she helped me go far beyond and deeper than that, addressing long-standing issues that were leaving the door open in my life to bad actors.
Over the past year of working with Shaneen, I have experienced nothing short of a massive and blessed turnaround. G-d has really used Shaneen to help me see the truth in wisdom of many patterns in my life and to make a plan for growth and positive change. Now, I have mostly resolved the very trying issues that were plaguing me, made many practical life changes that will draw me closer to G-d and the relationships that matter most in my life, and embarked on an entirely new career successfully.
If you have read this far, just do it -- work with Shaneen and be prepared for massive blessings and changes in your life as well.
Shaneen creates videos to help you navigate narcissistic relationships in your life from a biblical, practical, and spiritual perspective.
Narcissistic Rage in the Bible. What Triggers Narcissistic Rage? It is not About You.
Narcissism is nothing new. Explore narcissistic rage in the Bible, its triggers & patterns. Understand why it comes out of nowhere and how it's not about you.
Eight Steps to Leaving a Toxic Church or Cult Unscathed
Minimize trauma and avoid isolation with these 8 steps to leave a toxic environment. With these insights, you can navigate departure with wisdom and grace.
Can God Speak Through a Narcissist? How to Tell and How to Safeguard Yourself Against Deception
Can God speak through a narcissist? Many believe that narcissists are so entrenched in their self-serving ways that they're beyond any connection with God. But is that truly the case?
Signs of Narcissistic Abuse
All relationships have their ups and downs, but
narcissistic relationships take a toll on you emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. What are the signs that you might be in a narcissistic relationship? In particular, what are the signs that you are going through narcissistic abuse?
Are Narcissists Traumatized or Demonized? The Demonic Forces at Play Inside a Narcissist
Are narcissists traumatized or demonized? The answer is "yes." They are both. Understand the connection between trauma and the demonic spirits at play in a narcissist.
Silence as a Weapon: How to Overcome the Narcissist’s Silent Treatment
When the silent treatment is used to gain power and control in a relationship, it can be powerful and damaging. Understand how a narcissist uses silence as a weapon and how to deal with it.
Love-Bombing Is Witchcraft. How to Discern and Resist this Diabolical Manipulation
Love-bombing is an intriguing word. It sounds like love because the word love is in it, but love-bombing is anything but love. It is manipulation. Don't fall prey to it.
Restoration After Betrayal; How God Restores Relationships After Betrayal
Explore God's path to healing after betrayal. Discover the nuances of forgiveness, reconciliation, and restoration in relationships.
