Trauma Bonding vs. True Love: How to Tell the Difference Oct 29, 2025

When "Love" Feels Like a Prison

"I know they hurt me, but I love them so much I can't leave."

If you've ever found yourself saying these words, what...

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Why Narcissists Say 'I Don't Know What You're Talking About' (And Seem Sincere) Oct 22, 2025

"I don't know what you're talking about."

Have you ever heard those words from someone who clearly, CLEARLY did hurt you — and they seemed completely...

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Is Grey Rocking Biblical? What the Bible Really Says About Grey Rocking Narcissists Oct 15, 2025

The Spiritual Struggle Every Individual Faces

If you're a follower of God who's learned about grey rocking as a survival strategy for dealing with na...

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How Narcissistic Abuse Undermines Your Spiritual Discernment Oct 08, 2025

The Hidden Spiritual Battle in Narcissistic Relationships

What if I told you that narcissistic abuse doesn't just wound you emotionally - it can actu...

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The Narcissist's Smear Campaign: Biblical Strategies for When They Turn Everyone Against You Oct 02, 2025

When Your Reputation Becomes Their Weapon

Have you ever watched in horror as someone you trusted systematically destroyed your reputation, turned you...

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Physical Signs You Might Be Suffering Abuse, Even If No One Has Laid a Hand on You Sep 24, 2025

When Your Body Knows What Your Mind Denies

What if I told you that your body is keeping score of every cruel word, every manipulation, every moment o...

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The One Thing Narcissistic Abuse Always Steals First (and How to Get It Back) Sep 24, 2025

What if I told you that the very first thing narcissistic abuse steals — before your peace, before your confidence — is something far more sacred?

It...

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The Narcissist's Achilles Heel: What the Bible Reveals About Their Greatest Weakness Jun 30, 2025

Have you ever felt completely powerless in a relationship with a narcissist? Like no matter what you do, they always seem to be ten steps ahead, manip...

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The Real Reason God Allows Narcissists in Your Life May 12, 2025

Have you ever been up late at night, eyes swollen from crying, asking God that gut-wrenching question: “Why me? Why, Lord? Why did You allow this pers...

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How Therapy for the Narcissist Means Danger for You Feb 12, 2025

Let’s face it: life is messy. Really messy. Everyone deals with trauma, and we all need to do healing work. However, many people—especially those with...

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Do Narcissists Really Believe Their Lies? A Biblical Look at Deception Jan 28, 2025

Jessica's hands trembled as she held her husband's phone. The text messages and photos left no room for doubt – John had been carrying on an affair fo...

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Why Narcissists Are So ‘Generous’: The Hidden Agenda Behind the Gifts Oct 13, 2024

Sometimes, the most dangerous manipulation doesn’t come through anger or control, but through unexpected generosity. When someone overwhelms you with ...

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Why God Allows Toxic Relationships: 5 Ways He Uses Them for Your Good Sep 28, 2024

Ever wonder why God allows toxic relationships in your life? What if those painful experiences are actually part of His plan to transform you, heal de...

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Forgiving or Enabling a Narcissist? What Would Jesus Do? Sep 23, 2024

What does forgiveness look like when you're in a relationship with a narcissist who continues to do hurtful things and never takes responsibility?

Yo...

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​​How to Leave a Narcissist: Practical Steps to Planning Your Exit Sep 16, 2024

Are you stuck in a psychologically or physically destructive marriage with a narcissist? Are you thinking of leaving an abusive situation but don’t kn...

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7 Insightful Proverbs from the Bible on How to Deal with Narcissists Sep 02, 2024

Have you ever wondered if the Bible holds the key to dealing with the narcissist in your life? You've probably come across a lot of advice online, whi...

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Public Praise & Private Abuse: The Psychological Warfare of Narcissists Aug 18, 2024

Why is it that a narcissist will praise you to high heaven in public but tear you to shreds in private? When there’s an audience, they turn on a charm...

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Understanding Narcissists' Enablers: Breaking the Cycle Aug 12, 2024

Ever wondered how narcissists pull off their manipulative schemes? The answer is simple: they thrive on enablers. Without these people, a narcissist's...

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Letter to the Pastor's or Minister's Wife Jul 29, 2024

 
This post is going to be a little different than my usual, because my heart is unbearably burdened. 

My team and I have been grieving and praying as...

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Parenting with a Narcissist: 5 Life-Saving Tips to Protect Your Children Jul 15, 2024

I've received so many questions from you all asking, "What do I do if I have children with the narcissist?" and "How do I protect my kids from the nar...

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5 Types of Boundaries You Need to Set with the Narcissist Jul 08, 2024

Life without boundaries is chaos, confusion, and constant emotional turmoil. If you don’t have clear boundaries, you’ll find yourself bending over bac...

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Why You Feel Guilty For Setting Boundaries: 6 Lies the Narcissist Uses to Blame You for Your Needs Jul 01, 2024

Have you ever felt guilty for having boundaries? Do you hear yourself apologizing for your needs? Do you feel like a failure for having limits?

Well,...

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Can a Narcissist Flip Between Being Covert and Overt? Jun 25, 2024

My inbox is always brimming with questions about narcissism and how to navigate difficult relationships. I think you might find this one interesting:

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Explained: Why Narcissists Hate to See You Happy Jun 11, 2024

What if I told you that narcissists actively teach those around them not to be happy? Well, they do. The loss of joy is one of the most devastating ef...

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