They Seem to Have Changed. Can I Trust it? Nov 12, 2024

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who made you question your worth, manipulated your emotions, lied to you, and left you feeling...

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Is Going No Contact Biblical? Oct 30, 2024

Is going no contact biblical? Many people who follow Jesus struggle with the idea of going no contact with an abuser in their lives because it...

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How to Cultivate Sharp Discernment Oct 26, 2024

In part 2 of this series, I outlined 9 tips for recognizing whether a leader is a gifted wolf, or a true shepherd. Click here to read it. Today I...

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How to Discern a False Shepherd from a Real One Oct 24, 2024

Click here to read Part 1 of this article.

Some spiritual gifts are truly impressive, however they can be a mask, or a smoke screen to cover up...

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Gifted Wolf or True Shepherd?  Who are You Following? Oct 24, 2024

In a time when spiritual gifts are flowing, and charismatic leaders are rising to prominence, how can we be sure we’re following godly...

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Why Narcissists Are So ‘Generous’: The Hidden Agenda Behind the Gifts Oct 13, 2024

Sometimes, the most dangerous manipulation doesn’t come through anger or control, but through unexpected generosity. When someone overwhelms...

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Why God Allows Toxic Relationships: 5 Ways He Uses Them for Your Good Sep 28, 2024

Ever wonder why God allows toxic relationships in your life? What if those painful experiences are actually part of His plan to transform you, heal...

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Forgiving or Enabling a Narcissist? What Would Jesus Do? Sep 23, 2024

What does forgiveness look like when you're in a relationship with a narcissist who continues to do hurtful things and never takes responsibility?

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​​How to Leave a Narcissist: Practical Steps to Planning Your Exit Sep 16, 2024

Are you stuck in a psychologically or physically destructive marriage with a narcissist? Are you thinking of leaving an abusive situation but...

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The Shepherd or the Wolf? Telling True Leaders from Narcissists Sep 09, 2024

Have you ever wondered if there's a wolf in sheep's clothing among your church leadership? In this blog, I’m going to explore some startling...

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7 Insightful Proverbs from the Bible on How to Deal with Narcissists Sep 02, 2024

Have you ever wondered if the Bible holds the key to dealing with the narcissist in your life? You've probably come across a lot of advice online,...

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The Three Deepest Fears of a Narcissist and How Their Fears Control Us Aug 26, 2024

Narcissists are some of the most risk-tolerant, fearless types of personalities. They appear confident in their abilities. They pursue ambitious...

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Public Praise & Private Abuse: The Psychological Warfare of Narcissists Aug 18, 2024

Why is it that a narcissist will praise you to high heaven in public but tear you to shreds in private? When there’s an audience, they turn...

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Understanding Narcissists' Enablers: Breaking the Cycle Aug 12, 2024

Ever wondered how narcissists pull off their manipulative schemes? The answer is simple: they thrive on enablers. Without these people, a...

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Letter to the Pastor's or Minister's Wife Jul 29, 2024

 
This post is going to be a little different than my usual, because my heart is unbearably burdened. 

My team and I have been grieving...

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Parenting with a Narcissist: 5 Life-Saving Tips to Protect Your Children Jul 15, 2024

I've received so many questions from you all asking, "What do I do if I have children with the narcissist?" and "How do I protect my kids from the...

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5 Types of Boundaries You Need to Set with the Narcissist Jul 08, 2024

Life without boundaries is chaos, confusion, and constant emotional turmoil. If you don’t have clear boundaries, you’ll find yourself...

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Why You Feel Guilty For Setting Boundaries: 6 Lies the Narcissist Uses to Blame You for Your Needs Jul 01, 2024

Have you ever felt guilty for having boundaries? Do you hear yourself apologizing for your needs? Do you feel like a failure for having limits?

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Can a Narcissist Flip Between Being Covert and Overt? Jun 25, 2024

My inbox is always brimming with questions about narcissism and how to navigate difficult relationships. I think you might find this one...

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Explained: Why Narcissists Hate to See You Happy Jun 11, 2024

What if I told you that narcissists actively teach those around them not to be happy? Well, they do. The loss of joy is one of the most devastating...

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10 Tips on How to Survive, and Maybe Thrive with a Narcissist Boss May 21, 2024

Have you ever worked for a boss who was deeply entitled or had unreasonable expectations? Maybe they were callous and unemotional, manipulative, or...

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When Narcissistic Rage Becomes Dangerous: How to Protect Yourself without Dishonoring God May 06, 2024

"When he gets angry it's like he turns into a different person. But as long as things are calm it's great."
"I've been having nightmares that my...

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Narcissistic Rage in the Bible. What Triggers Narcissistic Rage? It is not About You. Apr 29, 2024

Narcissistic rage is nothing new. There may be a glossary of psychological terms to explain narcissism and narcissistic rage, making it appear as...

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Eight Steps to Leaving a Toxic Church or Cult Unscathed Apr 22, 2024

Are you thinking of leaving a toxic church, a spiritual community, or a workplace but not sure how to come out of it unscathed?

In this...

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