How Therapy for the Narcissist Means Danger for You Feb 12, 2025

Let’s face it: life is messy. Really messy. Everyone deals with trauma, and we all need to do healing work. However, many people—especially those with...

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Do Narcissists Really Believe Their Lies? A Biblical Look at Deception Jan 28, 2025

Jessica's hands trembled as she held her husband's phone. The text messages and photos left no room for doubt – John had been carrying on an affair fo...

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Why Narcissists Go from Bad to Worse: A Biblical Reality Check Jan 15, 2025

Sarah sat in her church office, tears streaming down her face as her pastor offered what he thought was encouraging advice: "Just keep praying for him...

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Can God Heal a Narcissist? Nov 25, 2024

Today, we’re tackling a big question: Can God heal a narcissist?

If you’ve researched narcissism, you’ve likely come across the same message: there’s...

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How to Cultivate Sharp Discernment Oct 26, 2024

In part 2 of this series, I outlined 9 tips for recognizing whether a leader is a gifted wolf, or a true shepherd. Click here to read it. Today I want...

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Why Narcissists Are So ‘Generous’: The Hidden Agenda Behind the Gifts Oct 13, 2024

Sometimes, the most dangerous manipulation doesn’t come through anger or control, but through unexpected generosity. When someone overwhelms you with ...

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The Shepherd or the Wolf? Telling True Leaders from Narcissists Sep 09, 2024

Have you ever wondered if there's a wolf in sheep's clothing among your church leadership? In this blog, I’m going to explore some startling truths an...

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Public Praise & Private Abuse: The Psychological Warfare of Narcissists Aug 18, 2024

Why is it that a narcissist will praise you to high heaven in public but tear you to shreds in private? When there’s an audience, they turn on a charm...

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Understanding Narcissists' Enablers: Breaking the Cycle Aug 12, 2024

Ever wondered how narcissists pull off their manipulative schemes? The answer is simple: they thrive on enablers. Without these people, a narcissist's...

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Letter to the Pastor's or Minister's Wife Jul 29, 2024

 
This post is going to be a little different than my usual, because my heart is unbearably burdened. 

My team and I have been grieving and praying as...

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Can a Narcissist Flip Between Being Covert and Overt? Jun 25, 2024

My inbox is always brimming with questions about narcissism and how to navigate difficult relationships. I think you might find this one interesting:

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Explained: Why Narcissists Hate to See You Happy Jun 11, 2024

What if I told you that narcissists actively teach those around them not to be happy? Well, they do. The loss of joy is one of the most devastating ef...

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When Narcissistic Rage Becomes Dangerous: How to Protect Yourself without Dishonoring God May 06, 2024

"When he gets angry it's like he turns into a different person. But as long as things are calm it's great."
"I've been having nightmares that my spou
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Malignant Narcissists in Ministry: How to Spot Their Covert Tactics Feb 08, 2024

A spiritual leader who is uncovered to be a cult leader is most likely also a covert, malignant narcissist. Cult leaders tend to be narcissists, and t...

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Dishonest Remorse: 5 Crafty Ways that Narcissists Try to Make You Think They're Sorry Jan 30, 2024

A narcissist can masterfully craft a confession that looks and sounds like an apology, but when you listen and observe more closely, there is no apolo...

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10 Subtle Signs of Spiritual Abuse: How to Spot a Wolf in Sheep's Clothing Jan 16, 2024

Perhaps you are in a spiritual community, organization, or ministry that professes to love and serve God. Many people might be blessed by the ministry...

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The Addiction of Religious Narcissists: How They Pursue Narcissistic Supply Through Religious Camouflage Oct 17, 2023

A narcissist is a lot like a drug addict. Just as a drug addict needs their drug to get their fix, a narcissist needs narcissistic supply. What is nar...

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Healing from Gaslighting in a Narcissistic Relationship Sep 27, 2023

Welcome to this week’s blog. This week is a bit different from the usual: In this blog, I have a prayer that you can pray for yourself if you find you...

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Am I Being Abused by a Covert Narcissist? How to Recognize Covert Narcissistic Abuse in Disguise Aug 29, 2023

Are you questioning your sanity? Do you feel like you are always at fault in your relationship but aren't sure why? Those are classic effects of narci...

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