The Shepherd or the Wolf? Telling True Leaders from Narcissists Sep 09, 2024

Have you ever wondered if there's a wolf in sheep's clothing among your church leadership? In this blog, I’m going to explore some startling...

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The Three Deepest Fears of a Narcissist and How Their Fears Control Us Aug 26, 2024

Narcissists are some of the most risk-tolerant, fearless types of personalities. They appear confident in their abilities. They pursue ambitious...

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Public Praise & Private Abuse: The Psychological Warfare of Narcissists Aug 18, 2024

Why is it that a narcissist will praise you to high heaven in public but tear you to shreds in private? When there’s an audience, they turn...

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Understanding Narcissists' Enablers: Breaking the Cycle Aug 12, 2024

Ever wondered how narcissists pull off their manipulative schemes? The answer is simple: they thrive on enablers. Without these people, a...

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Letter to the Pastor's or Minister's Wife Jul 29, 2024

 
This post is going to be a little different than my usual, because my heart is unbearably burdened. 

My team and I have been grieving...

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5 Types of Boundaries You Need to Set with the Narcissist Jul 08, 2024

Life without boundaries is chaos, confusion, and constant emotional turmoil. If you don’t have clear boundaries, you’ll find yourself...

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Why You Feel Guilty For Setting Boundaries: 6 Lies the Narcissist Uses to Blame You for Your Needs Jul 01, 2024

Have you ever felt guilty for having boundaries? Do you hear yourself apologizing for your needs? Do you feel like a failure for having limits?

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Can a Narcissist Flip Between Being Covert and Overt? Jun 25, 2024

My inbox is always brimming with questions about narcissism and how to navigate difficult relationships. I think you might find this one...

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Explained: Why Narcissists Hate to See You Happy Jun 11, 2024

What if I told you that narcissists actively teach those around them not to be happy? Well, they do. The loss of joy is one of the most devastating...

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10 Tips on How to Survive, and Maybe Thrive with a Narcissist Boss May 21, 2024

Have you ever worked for a boss who was deeply entitled or had unreasonable expectations? Maybe they were callous and unemotional, manipulative, or...

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When Narcissistic Rage Becomes Dangerous: How to Protect Yourself without Dishonoring God May 06, 2024

"When he gets angry it's like he turns into a different person. But as long as things are calm it's great."
"I've been having nightmares that my...

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Narcissistic Rage in the Bible. What Triggers Narcissistic Rage? It is not About You. Apr 29, 2024

Narcissistic rage is nothing new. There may be a glossary of psychological terms to explain narcissism and narcissistic rage, making it appear as...

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Signs of Narcissistic Abuse Apr 03, 2024

We all know that relationships have their ups and downs, but narcissistic relationships are especially tricky to navigate, and they can take a toll...

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Silence as a Weapon: How to Overcome the Narcissistā€™s Silent Treatment Mar 21, 2024

Have you ever been in a situation where someone you cared about suddenly stopped speaking to you? No explanation, no argument, just silence. If...

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Dishonest Remorse: 5 Crafty Ways that Narcissists Try to Make You Think They're Sorry Jan 30, 2024

A narcissist can masterfully craft a confession that looks and sounds like an apology, but when you listen and observe more closely, there is no...

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How to Identify the Victim of Narcissistic Abuse (Versus the Narcissist Who Plays the Victim) Jan 04, 2024

When an abusive narcissist is called out on their behavior, whether they are exposed or confronted, they will likely play the victim rather than...

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Behind the Mask: How Narcissists Suppress Their Envy Dec 19, 2023

Narcissists have a strange mix of traits. On the one hand, they are envious of others.  But they also see themselves as...

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How to Be Empowered to Deal with a Narcissist When No-Contact is Not Possible Dec 13, 2023

In many cases, it’s necessary and wise to go no-contact after leaving a relationship with a narcissist. The reason? You cannot heal in the...

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When a Narcissist Loses Control Over You: Ten Unique Things They Will Do Dec 05, 2023

What happens when the narcissist in your life realizes that they no longer have control over you? Maybe you have caught on to their deceptions and...

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Slander vs Exposing Evil: What is the difference between slandering and exposing evil? Nov 16, 2023

What is the difference between slandering and exposing evil?

If you were to share about a person’s dark deeds, sinful practices,...

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The Addiction of Religious Narcissists: How They Pursue Narcissistic Supply Through Religious Camouflage Oct 17, 2023

A narcissist is a lot like a drug addict. Just as a drug addict needs their drug to get their fix, a narcissist needs narcissistic supply. What is...

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Am I Being Abused by a Covert Narcissist? How to Recognize Covert Narcissistic Abuse in Disguise Aug 29, 2023

Are you questioning your sanity? Do you feel like you are always at fault in your relationship but aren't sure why? Those are classic effects of...

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